This gift of crossing lives with other beings whether the outcome is make or break, happiness or misery — it brings out from deep inside of you the realest bits of you. It forces you to face your own demons, enriches your experience and deepens your humanness.
I know depressed is not me. I’m so much more. That being said, yes, I can be depressed. It’s a truth that sometimes I’m convinced it’s best if I kill myself. What can I say? This is what I’m dealing with on a daily basis. It’s part of me.
Being strong isn’t going around saying I have been hurt before; I’m guarded; It’s hard to love me and expecting people to break my wall and get me out. Being strong is keeping my outlook positive and my door open despite having been hurt before (seriously, what’s the big deal about it?)
Girls like us, we’re not as good at living in the moment as you do. So please be careful with your words because when you look into our eyes and you say you want us, it can be ridiculously hard for us to really understand that you might only mean it in that very moment but not necessarily anything more.
I wasn’t broken; I was just lost. I wasn’t unloved; I was just too wrapped up in my own head to realize that I was treasured by so many precious people for whom I had always been enough. During all the times I thought life couldn’t get any worse, it was actually far from worse. It was slowly getting better. I was gradually becoming me.
It is harder and takes much longer for me to fall in love but once I do, I fall deep and for the right reasons.
14. Given how long you’ve known each other and how much you’ve been through together, even the label ‘bestfriend’ sounds lame. You’re no longer just bestfriends. You’re like arms and legs on one body. You’re each other’s family and soulmate.
See, I was never taught by my family to place importance on look but when the world kept repeating it and treating me based on it, long enough, I started to care and really think I wasn’t beautiful, then eventually disregarded all other good qualities I had.
If you google the phrase “clingy in a relationship”, pretty much 9 out of 10 search results will come up with a negative, dismissive tone while the remaining 1 is probably urban dictionary explaining what clingy means. “Clingy” has long been deemed as one of the most undesirable traits that could instantly turn off any level of […]